strength.

i can't decide if its better to be a strong woman who seems like she doesn't need someone. or if it's better to be the girl that needs everyones help. lately its been brought to my attention that there is always someone who is more powerful in a relationship. maybe power is the wrong word. but - there is someone who is always giving more. being strong. bearing all the work and effort. this person is known to all is capable, wonderful and strong. but - when you see them breakdown one day, you see that it really is hard for them to bear the cross all the time. its hard to always be the one to make decisions. or is it better to be the one people count on rather than the one who counts on everyone?

when i see the "strong" women - i don't know if i have the energy and strength to be that woman. is it too weak to just want to be taken care of? to just have someone there with me and to help me out?